Helping others become even better versions of themselves
Your dog has no opinions of itself or you.
That’s why it is always pleased to see you, always wagging its tail and is full of joy.
We as humans can also choose this, it simply means that we have to learn to observe and witness our own thoughts without evaluation. This will allow the judgemental thoughts to dissolve as we have not given them energy or acted upon them.
We can then see ourselves and others with no filters, wag our tails and be like the dog, free from the judgements of our mind.
We look for the worst in others by default and then wonder why we feel insecure? We judge others, when in fact, it is a judgement of ourselves.
Perhaps our collective and individual self-confidence would be hugely improved if we only looked for the good in others and accept what is and people for what they are? We may communicate and get on so much better.
Then we might only look for the best in ourselves too and feel better.
It is all a choice, but surely better to look for the good in others and ourselves.
Philip Dodson 