We look for the worst in others by default and then wonder why we feel insecure? We judge others, when in fact, it is a judgement of ourselves.
Perhaps our collective and individual self-confidence would be hugely improved if we only looked for the good in others and accept what is and people for what they are? We may communicate and get on so much better.
Then we might only look for the best in ourselves too and feel better.
It is all a choice, but surely better to look for the good in others and ourselves.