Relationships, simple really

If we want to enjoy a successful relationship with another person we need to learn to accept the other person as they are… completely. We are not here to change others.

We need first to understand them, before we try to be understood. They want someone to listen not tell them, like all of us, but we have to listen first.

Don’t wait for them to say sorry, do not punish or be a victim. Be ourselves 100%. Be first and let go of our story and ego.

Love them unconditionally, which is what love from the soul always is. Not the neediness of the mind.

We need to make ourselves happy and not rely on them. Free them from that burden and ourselves from the disappointment our expectations will always bring.

Expect nothing of them and simply enjoy them for who they are.

The route to success is always found in our hearts and souls, it’s love pure and simple. That’s all.

It’s raining

I love the rain, it brings a crisp clean air, it washes away, it renews, it brings life, it is joy.

Without rain nothing would exist.

Also, it’s great to just stand in the rain and experience the feeling and the joy of the water droplets falling onto your head, and face and skin. To just be with nature, with this moment, to just exist in a state of peace.

Splash in a puddle, in fact, jump right into it and get really soaked.

Joy comes from the most basic simple things, yet we are conditioned to be searching for the next ‘big’ thing. Happiness can be experience always in this moment from the simple, basic, so called ‘ordinary’ things.

Get out and enjoy the rain.