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It will pass

Posted on by philipdodson

Whenever we feel down, or things are not going our way, or someone is unkind to us, or whatever that is affecting us in a negative way, I am increasingly learning in life to let it go.

Sure the first reaction is to feel sorry for ourselves or perhaps blame bad luck or others. We feel sometimes that the current bad situation will last forever.

The moment we decide to let it go, to not worry about it, to place some perspective and to realise it will pass, it always does, that is when slowly, but surely, almost like magic, things start to go our way.

The moment we stop resistance in life, that is the moment that the skies clear, the gloom lifts and the universe works with us to guide us to things that we could not previously see in our doom and gloom.

There is an amazing life for us all if we choose.

Keeping change going is tough

Posted on by philipdodson

The road to change is a long one and a challenging one at times.

The challenge is, you have to deal with realisations that the person you once were, or still sometimes are, wasn’t always the person that you are proud of. Made choices, that you now see as bad ones.

On the road to change, you have to accept that you were wrong in the past. It takes courage to accept that you were wrong or your choices were bad.

The easy route is to carry on believing that it’s others who were wrong, that you do not need to change.

We are all human, so there is no judgement if we slip occasionally, if we are not perfect. The thing is, if we extend that kindness to ourselves, which we could choose to do, we could also choose to extend that kindness to others, as they are human too.