Stop searching

Stop searching the world for what you may have done wrong, for what you may have failed at, for what you could have done better, or for any other shortcomings.

You will always find what you are looking for in others criticism or reactions or words.

Stop seeking permission, stop seeking validation, stop caring what others may think, be true to yourself and your values, set and respect boundaries of what is and isn’t acceptable.

Start belonging to yourself, stop searching to fit-in.

Look instead for connection with humanity through generosity, kindness, empathy, love, compassion.

As Brene Brown says ‘hold hands with strangers’ and experience collective joy and take our share of collective pain.

One word

If what you have to say takes one word, then that is enough.

Our story can be as long or short as you choose. 

Our voice is ours to own. 

The words we choose are ours to choose. 

Our message is our message. 

Our way of saying things is exactly that, our way and not to be modified to fit in. 

We shackle ourselves continually with others rules of what to say, the words to use, how we should express ourselves. 

Freedom is being true to ourselves . 

When we express ourselves with the words that are ours and in a way, that is without compromise to our values,then we are free. 

One word, free.