Listen, or your tongue will make you deaf

The human race has entered a stage where no one listens anymore.

We hear but we do not listen. We surround ourselves in a bubble of our own views, an impenetrable echo chamber of hatred and fearmongering against other bubbles. There is no time for listening, instantly dismissing someone before they have even finished their sentence, based on judgements of our mind of what that person represents.

Listening requires pausing from thinking about our own answer, it requires not thinking about how something affects us and it requires not evaluating what the person is saying while they are saying it. It requires empathy, it requires the ability to understand, it requires the ability to actually take in a viewpoint different from our own. It requires a love of all human souls and a realisation that we are all equal no matter what, we are the one-life, the human race.

An indigenous saying from North America sums up listening well – “Listen, or your tongue will make you deaf”.

What if?

What if you don’t continue?

What if you quit?

What if you leave?

What if you don’t say it?

What if? What if? What if?

We fear to do what we feel because we fear the consequences. Yet the consequences of our actions only happen after we have done them and therefore what we fear is the psychological fear that is just a creation of our mind and its projection into the fantasy that is the future.

Never fear what if, just do what you feel always and in the moment. When consequences unfold, we can deal with them, in that moment.