Becoming silent

Silence is as important as anything, as much as air, water, light. It nourishes our soul.

By becoming silent, that does not mean that you have to stop speaking or go off to be alone and sit in a forest, although, being in solitude in the depth of nature is good for us too, just not always available in our daily lives. It means a silence from the daily distractions of the mind, the negative constant drain of words in our heads. The mental mindstream drags us relentlessly through the torrents of suffering both mental and physical.

When we are born, our default is to be conscious, awake, alive in this present moment, however, our conditioning creates the mindstream that distracts us and then we go to ‘sleep’ and are not aware of our real life that is now. Most humans spend most if not all of their lives asleep with the constant noise of words in the head, which they are attached too.

Once we start down the path of unlearning the conditioning to listen to the mind and its constant chatter, there become small gaps in thought, that gap is silence, and as we train our minds to be peaceful and as we attach less and less importance to our thoughts, the gap grows. So then the silence is longer and longer. The more we have silence, the more we are awake and aware.

This allows the real person that is truly us to be alive and allows the true soul to be. The real you and I are the person beyond thought, we are not the ego or story that the mind has created, we are the inner energy, the soul, the witness of thought, the knower of senses and the person who observes our emotions and reactions.

Silence can be everywhere and anywhere, we can create our own silence even in the noisiest place in the world, silence is inside us all, peace and calm are there, we just have to allow it to be by simply witnessing and not energising our endless thoughts.

The turbulence on the surface of the exterior world and the mind-dominated interior are only there if we energise it, if search deep within us, like the bottom of the lake or sea, there is always stillness, peace and silence.

Becoming silent is consciousness, is awareness, is life.

Our own journeys

The transition from habitually being stuck in our mind and thoughts, to being awake and conscious, is like any transition, it takes patience and being kind to ourselves.

It also takes being patient with others too.

If we think enlightenment and becoming awake makes us better, then we are still stuck in our minds and possessed by our egos.

Everyone is on their own journey and it is not our purpose to affect that journey or to judge it.

When we encounter others who are not awake, it is not our position to judge, criticise or try to alter that. Equally, if we enter other people’s drama and story, we only energise it.

All we can do is continue our own journey and try to be an example for others, try to bring our light. Stay away from our mind, be aware of our reactions to others and allow it to be and do not become it. Simply stay focused on the moment ourselves and not concern ourselves with others.

We are all equal, worthy and amazing human souls whatever our state of consciousness. Let others be.