Doing things for the self-image

How much of what we do on a day-to-day basis is actually of any real purpose or meaning for our lives?

Perhaps a lot of what we do is to be seen to be doing things for the sake of our self-image in front of others or own mind’s eye, our egos.

We are obsessed with proving to others our capabilities or achievements when we have actually have no need to prove anything to others or ourselves at all. It is for a fear of being not good enough or own self-worth.

If we stopped doing things for the sake of our egos and did things that are truly important and have meaning, then what would life be like? Perhaps, we would not need to be right all the time? Maybe we would have better relationships with others as there would be less competitiveness.

Our egos get in the way of life, we are all already worthy regardless of what we do.

It’s not what we think matters in the eyes of others or in our own mind’s eye, it is doing what really matters in our hearts regardless of what others may think.

Follow the heart

Go ahead with your life be brave, be bold, be fearless, and do not every be unkind to yourself or anyone else.

Show love, empathy, kindness, support, compassion and openness, be vulnerable, it is how you make for a joy-filled life.

Embrace your emotions and treasure them, never bury them.

Let go of all that poison that is showered on us by those who want to control us.

Do not give into it, resist, stay free, always be curious, be loving, open, never become compliant, owned, ruled and obliged to do or say anything that you deep down know is not right for you, follow your heart, follow your instinct, stay true to your values.

Be you, be liberated and experience the one time only opportunity of life.

Love and the heart can not always be explained and it does not always make sense, but logic can be dull and controlling.

We all have that gift of life and love, savour it and follow your heart.