Dependency is a burden we place on others.
Independence, it frees you from unfulfilled expectation and disappointment and it releases others from the wearing burden of fulfilling your expectations of them.
Be independent of others always.
Tag: dependent
Waiting on others
We can wait for others to care.
We can wait for others to call.
We can wait for others to message.
We can wait for others to do it for us.
We can wait for others to bring us joy.
We can wait for others to fix it.
We can wait for permission.
We can wait for others to notice us.
Waiting is painful for us and the others that we have chosen to become dependent on.
Or we can get on and do things that others will want to care about, will notice, and the same time build our own happiness, joy, fulfilment and give ourselves permission to live a care and guilt-free life that is focused on our own joy, happiness and dreams.
It’s easier short-term to wait and be dependent, but the longer you wait the greater the pain.
Philip Dodson 