99 more times


For something to change, for a habit to from, for someone to notice what we are doing or saying, you’ve done it once, now you might have to do it another 99 times for the magic to happen.

Change is repetition, commitment, perseverance and patience.

Doing it once is not enough, doing every day for months or even years brings about a powerful compound effect.

No perceivable change occurs in the early stages and that is where we most often give in, we wanted the quick fix instant result kind of change, but lasting change takes longer.

But once you build momentum the change is often surprisingly much better than expected and easier then to maintain.

What change will you do at least 99 more times?

You are….


Often parents, teachers, bosses and others, tell us what we are.

You are an extrovert, you are shy, you are not a people person, you are not good at x or y, you are….

Most often what they are telling us we are is a critical judgement not a positive affirmation. 

The voices of others mould and shape us, often to a place that we do not like, to being a person truly we are not. However, it takes a long time to realise this and the longer you accept the view of others, the longer it takes to overcome.

Listen to you view of you, it is one that matters.

Don’t be afraid to speak out and set the boundaries with others, be brave to voice who you really are to the world.

Tell yourself what you really are and be that person regardless of what others say.

It is our life and our choices, make the ones that serve you best.