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There is a new hope….collaboration

Posted on by philipdodson

Yesterday was International Collaboration Day, the third one in fact.

It saw communities all across the world get together and host events to celebrate working with others, sharing ideas and belonging to a coworking community.

One of the most over-powering desires as a human is the need to feel that we belong to something and that we are part of something.

Here we are at the early part of the 21st century and for increasing number of us, there is a huge sense of disconnection, a sense of disillusionment and for some even a feeling of loneliness.

What has been removed from much of the developed world is community. The main religion is capitalism and to be honest that is a very shallow, superficial and soul-less religion. A movement that has become a victim of it’s own success, one that is full of greed and has little time for anything other than the tiny elite that have been the only benefactors of that religion. A religion where the needs of a tiny few are meet at the cost of the needs of the vast majority, who are the sacrificial lambs at the alter of the elite.

So what do we do?

How do we change this?

Many of us read alternative media now and get to hear the real truths behind the ‘dream’ that is sold to us by the manipulative churches of the capitalist religion, that being the mainstream media.

We are sold many untruths, we are distracted from the real truths and lead to hate and be judgemental over the scapegoats for the world’s ills. So poor people, homeless people, certain ethnic groups, Muslims, benefit cheats, immigrants and others are targeted by the establishment. They are vilified for their supposed behaviour and then vilified and disgraced by the establishment controlled mass media. We are encourage to join in the hate, as they are presented to us as the reason for the ills we suffer.

Meanwhile, large corporations, governments and many others that make up that small 1% or less of the world’s population, do whatever they want and exploit the rest of us for their personal gain.

Now it has become popular amongst many on the internet to challenge the establishment and campaign against the iniquities of the world.

However, it is dangerous, as to simply sneer, ridicule and want to destroy the establishment is not the answer. What do we put in it’s place? We’ll tear it all down and replace it with what? Anarchy?

No one wants anarchy, that will be worse than the current iniquities.

So before we say good riddance to the old school world, that many of us now realise is no longer appropriate, no longer acceptable and is having a detrimental impact on billions of us globally, we better start offering up an alternative solution.

The anti-establishment side, of which I am one, needs to articulate a real, viable and inspirational alternative way of living, working and ordering the world.

We need to put forward our ‘why’, we need to inspire the disconnected of the world with an alternative that will make the world better, more equal, more sustainable for them. We need to be organised and we need to offer solutions, rather than just criticism of the established world order that many of us now believe is wrong.

So back to collaboration. Collaboration is a way of bringing together people who can ‘hack’ the ideas for the future of human race. Collaboration can enable people to connect and share their thoughts, fears, issues, challenges and work together to come up with an alternative solution to the same old failed one’s that are offered up endlessly by the current world order.

The time to act is now.

If you are tired of wars that are waged for the economic gain of the few.

If you are tired of global corporations exploiting people, the environment and not putting back into the communities that they ‘rape’.

If you are sickened by the poverty, homelessness, the iniquities of so few holding in such a ridiculously disproportionate amount of the world’s power, money and resources.

If you tired of large companies like Monsanto poisoning us, destroying our ecosystems, peddling us genetically modified food.

If you are tired of being lied to by the one sided media that is totally controlled and run by the establishment for the establishment.

If you are tired of seeing the poorest in society or even greater numbers of us being put upon by the elite.

If you tired of the fact that the vast majority of the human race have to face the harsh realities of life while at the same time a tiny elite are living in a protected bubble.

If you saddened by the fact that there is enough of everything in the world to mean that we can all live well, but it is in the hands of a few that don’t care and are not going to share it.

If you are tired of the judgemental world, that is shallow, hollow and soul-less.

The list could go on for pages, in fact you could fill encyclopedic sized volumes with it.

So if you are tired, seek out other like minded people, get together and start to think out loud solutions. Don’t do, as many do and just criticise, ridicule or desire to tear it down.

We have to work together to inspire the human race to change and to overcome the ‘way its always been done’ mentality. Just because things have ‘always been that way’ does not mean it can not change.

The human race is now at a point where we are enlightened enough and truly able to be connected globally, that we can come together and we can work together to forge solutions for the whole of the human race and replace, once and for all, the suffering of the majority inflicted by the few.

The new hope for the world is people coming together and collaborating.

Think different, work different, live different and be different.

What you look for is what you get

Posted on by philipdodson

So yesterday I posted on Facebook about what you look for is what you get? That got me thinking about that whole thing. Often, none of us realise the signals or messages we are sending out.

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I mean in life, not just business. I hear so many people saying ‘I need these type of clients’. Yet you then listen to their ‘pitch’ and who they are targeting and then you think, that doesn’t match what you are looking for.

Also, people write and talk about certain values and yet in reality their actions don’t match what they say or write. It is a tough one this. None of us are walking on water and perfection is something you should never strive for in my opinion.

I love imperfection and it will only cause no amount of beating yourself up for failing, when you strive to be perfect.

So, I am not sure that, there are many people who live every moment of their life, living completely true to their values. However, the closer what you do, matches what you say you are going to do, then the happier you will be.

So going back to opportunities, we miss so much of what we are looking for in life because we send the wrong message/signals and that can often attract the wrong people/opportunities. This can leave us wondering why.

The reason I think is, if we behave in a way that matches our values and are clear in putting out the message, then that tells others what we want and what we stand for. Then all of sudden, we attract the right people and then those people help us see and unlock the right opportunities.

Often in life, we assume that others can almost read our mind. We say things internally to ourselves about what we want, types of customers, type of partner etc, but then we do not verbalise that message clearly to others.

So we think that we are, but in fact when you stop to look at what we do say or how we act, then you realise, I have many times, that the message is either wrong or we are putting in the wrong way.

It is often useful to write these things down, starting with working out what our values are and what we stand for, then verbalising that in a clear message that others will understand.

Interestingly, once you start doing this, it is amazing how you start to attract the people that you have always wanted to and you seem to find the wrong people, who perhaps you previously attracted and didnt know why, de-select themselves.

Then it is important to put your values into practice in all elements of your life. When I say life I mean exactly that, all to often people, mistakenly in my opinion, live a work life and a home life. They are the same thing. We talk about this work mask and home mask.

I have learnt that happiness and therefore success, only comes if you are yourself and if you are, as often as you can be, are true to your values. Then you surround yourself with the right people and then it is amazing the opportunities that come your way.

You are sending out the right signals, the right messages and that then, like a magnet, pulls towards you all the right opportunities.

Then over time what starts to occur is the compound effect, that gradually week by week, month by month, these consistent small steps create momentum.

However, it all starts with that change in the message, change in the signals. Get yourself happy and put out positive vibes, matched by action and then you start to open the right doors. Then that leads to the next and so on.

The same in reverse, unclear and perhaps negative signals/messages might not open any doors, however, can often open the wrong ones and take you down a different route in life. I know that, cause I have been down the wrong paths many times and not realising it was all due to the wrong outward message.

Rarely do we wake up and say ‘let’s screw things up today’ so often we get frustrated as to why we are not getting what we want. That goes back to my original point, what you look for is what you get. So start looking for the things that you really want and back them up with the words and actions that match that. If they are aligned to your values, then they will make you happy and successful.