It inside us

Change, reaction, fear, worry, love, kindness, joy, hate…the list could go on, all of it is inside us.

We decide to react or not, stay stuck in our minds or not, be our egos or not, be whatever. We decide it all. We choose to label situations with the word problem, we choose to be the emotions that are fear, worry, anger and so on. We choose to be the reaction instead of accepting what is.

We look to the exterior when all that happens in our life comes from within and within is something we control.

The answer is within us all.

Hit and miss

Everything we do is a little hit and miss.

Sometimes we get it spot on and people get it and other times it isn’t as sweet. That’s life and we could to accept it instead of over-analyse it.

Once we accept that we will not please everyone all of the time, in fact, we only need to please those who really matter and that includes ourselves first, then life flows more peacefully.

The drain for many is the pursuit of trying to please.