Everything we do is a little hit and miss.
Sometimes we get it spot on and people get it and other times it isn’t as sweet. That’s life and we could to accept it instead of over-analyse it.
Once we accept that we will not please everyone all of the time, in fact, we only need to please those who really matter and that includes ourselves first, then life flows more peacefully.
The drain for many is the pursuit of trying to please.