Helping others become even better versions of themselves
Once we realise that our happiness and joy in life is our responsibility and no one else’s, then we take out the burden on others and disappointment for ourselves.
All relationships are better without the expectations of others to fulfil our life for us and its resulting suffering and burden.
Make our own happiness and free ourselves and others.
Did it matter?
All those rants, all those arguments, all that shouting, all the crying, all the feuds, all the revenge, all the suffering.
Did it change anything? Did it make you feel better? Did the other person feel better towards you?
If we accept others as they are, if we accept everything as it is, if we are at peace at what has already occurred, then there is no need for suffering for ourselves or others.
We can still have a view, we can still voice what we feel, it’s just we will do it without the emotional attachment.
Suffering is always a choice, emotions are the chemical turbulence within the body caused by our egocentric stories and thoughts. Once we react, we suffer.
Nothing matters unless we choose to make it so.
