Perfection is dirty

Imperfection is the magic of life and it is what we love the most.

The more we try to perfect, to cleanse ourselves of any imperfection, the more we become dirty.

Perfectionism, it’s hiding place from showing up, it’s a place where we feel we can not be judged, it’s a way of trying to stay out of the limelight of being criticised.

But the more we feel perfect, the more judgemental of others we become and that’s not cleansed it’s dirty.

Stay clean from the stain of perfection.

We do things when we are ready

In life, we talk about the changes we’re going to make or we want to make.

Yet the change doesn’t happen.

We set goals, we make plans, we even take action. We listen to others. We buy books, sign up for courses and so on.

Yet, still it doesn’t come. We do not change.

It comes when we are truly ready, when we, and we alone, commit of our choice, free of pressure, free of others well intentioned, or not, advice and when it just is the right moment in our journey.

The more we force it, the less it will happen. The more others suggest it, the less it will happen.

Change is a personal thing and subjective. After all, who are others to judge we need to change? There is also this obsession with changing to fit in or to be perfect.

We are already worthy, we can ourselves choose to become even better when we’re ready.