Accept it

The more we want something to happen, the less it does.

If we accept what is and allow things to happen as they are and let life unfold without any pressure, then what is meant to be will happen.

Of course, we may not be happy with what unfolds, but if we accept that within that everything happens as it is meant to and is outside of our control, then we can be at peace within whatever the outcome.

There are no good or bad experiences, only learning. It is the mind that wants to label things good or bad and as a result, we allow ourselves to suffer.

It is what it is, accept it and be at peace.

Unevaluated

Once you label something then the person or thing has been judged, including ourselves.

The mind is a giant subconscious labelling machine that we are not aware of, even as we walk down the street or watch something, or talking, the mind is working away labelling and boxing-up everything and everyone.

This means, that we only see the world through the labels and judgements of our mind.

If we just let our mind and its labels to be and simply observe the world without those lenses, then we see the beautiful, amazing and unevaluated world as it is.