It’s tomorrow

The BIG day.

It’s just a few hours away.

The excitement is building.

The stockings are hung.

What if the 25th December was just another day? Would we be so excited? Would we be kind to others? Would we be neighbourly? Would we speak to loved ones? Would we care about others as much as we can choose on the 25th December to do?

Every day could be a BIG day if we choose it.

Waiting on others

We can wait for others to care.

We can wait for others to call.

We can wait for others to message.

We can wait for others to do it for us.

We can wait for others to bring us joy.

We can wait for others to fix it.

We can wait for permission.

We can wait for others to notice us.

Waiting is painful for us and the others that we have chosen to become dependent on.

Or we can get on and do things that others will want to care about, will notice, and the same time build our own happiness, joy, fulfilment and give ourselves permission to live a care and guilt-free life that is focused on our own joy, happiness and dreams.

It’s easier short-term to wait and be dependent, but the longer you wait the greater the pain.