Sitting on the fence

At times in life, we can step back for a moment and realise that we are sitting on the fence.

We hold back.

We wait for our moment.

However, we can end up sitting on the fence observing for a very long time.

Our moments in life are now and every single moment, as we, and we alone, make those moments happen.

Jump off the fence and take part in the party that is our lives.

Waiting on others

We can wait for others to care.

We can wait for others to call.

We can wait for others to message.

We can wait for others to do it for us.

We can wait for others to bring us joy.

We can wait for others to fix it.

We can wait for permission.

We can wait for others to notice us.

Waiting is painful for us and the others that we have chosen to become dependent on.

Or we can get on and do things that others will want to care about, will notice, and the same time build our own happiness, joy, fulfilment and give ourselves permission to live a care and guilt-free life that is focused on our own joy, happiness and dreams.

It’s easier short-term to wait and be dependent, but the longer you wait the greater the pain.