Build on your own land

Might be an obvious thing to say, however, many still build on someone else’s land.

Building on other’s land is a risky strategy as you have no control over where you are gaining your business from. What if Facebook or Twitter or LinkedIn or whatever platform/network change, close, or you can not get access to? So if you only have your content, community, ads, call to action, the source of leads and customers on other people’s platforms then do not be too surprised if suddenly your business changes.

If however, you see them as very useful tools to drive people to your own land i.e. your website, inbox, newsletter sign up and face to face contact, then you are building your business on your own land that you have ownership and control.

Amazing how much we trust that things will be there forever when no one can predict what will happen beyond 12 months.

When we are ready

The obvious can be staring us in the face, everything can point to the change, we know it deep down, others whose guidance we trust can tell us and yet we stay stuck.

We can only move forward when we are ready to and when we accept what is and let go.

This can be frustrating for the onlooking well-intended advisors, but it is not up to them. Change is an inside job where we need to be willing to let go of the pain, of being a victim, to let go of the reasons not to, to be at peace and relieve the pressure to match the invented self-image in the mind.

When we accept we are worthy no matter what and when we come from a place of acceptance and peace we will have clearer, focused and growth mindset.

We just need to accept then we will be ready to change.