The obvious can be staring us in the face, everything can point to the change, we know it deep down, others whose guidance we trust can tell us and yet we stay stuck.
We can only move forward when we are ready to and when we accept what is and let go.
This can be frustrating for the onlooking well-intended advisors, but it is not up to them. Change is an inside job where we need to be willing to let go of the pain, of being a victim, to let go of the reasons not to, to be at peace and relieve the pressure to match the invented self-image in the mind.
When we accept we are worthy no matter what and when we come from a place of acceptance and peace we will have clearer, focused and growth mindset.
We just need to accept then we will be ready to change.