The observer

Take a while to just be with an emotion or to just be with a thought and observe them, not become them, but simply to be the witness to them. Don’t resist them, that only energises them and allows them to grow and take control. Simply be the silent witness, after all, our true essence and being, in a conscious state, is the knower.

The real you and I are not our thoughts or emotions, and if we energise them, we start to become them and attaching to them, then we will be them. Thoughts occur on average 60,000 times a day, so it can become draining to energise them all, well impossible to energise all them, but we get dragged along by them into a subconscious state. Thought creates emotion, literally turbulence in the body.

The observer is at peace without becoming the turbulence.

Simply us

The version of us that others choose to create in their minds is not our responsibility, it’s up to them what they choose to create.

We can’t control it either and it doesn’t matter, as that is their choice and it is only their mind’s view of us, nothing more and nothing less.

We spend a great deal of energy on concerning ourselves with other people’s views of us, a thing that we have no control over when instead, we could choose to expend that energy on being grateful for who we truly are and sharing that with the world care-free of other people’s judgements.

A place of gratitude is more peaceful and positive than a place of fear and anxiety of others.

We are not the other person’s version they hold of us. We are simply us.