Addiction

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We live in a world where nearly all of us have an addiction of some sort.

I am not talking about the usual things when we think of addiction, such as alcohol, drugs or food. Those are the obvious ones that society uses to easily judge others with, as they race to update their Facebook status about how terrible these kind of people are.

We might be addicted to checking if we have any new message notifications, likes, follows or comments.

We might be addicted to YouTube, Pokemon, our smartphones or many other compulsive habits that we all have.

This addictive behaviour is a reflection of the judgemental, fear, scarcity and shaming society that we have created, where most are craving worthiness or hiding from the scarring effects of a society such as that.

If only we could remove the correlation between achievement, what we have done, what we have, where we live, who we know and many other things and worthiness as a person.

We are born good enough and will remain so throughout our lives regardless.

We need to be unconditional with each other and unexpectant.

People who feel worthy do not need to hide or soothe their souls with addiction.

We can all help build a society as one human race that feels worthy.

Unpleasant design and how spikes have removed negotiation

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‘Unpleasant Design’ is the title of a book by Gordan Savicic & Selena Savic, it was also the title of the latest episode on one of my favourite podcasts, 99 Percent Invisible by Roman Mars.

The book and podcast talk all about how design has been used in an unpleasant way to kerb supposed anti-social behaviour.

So for example spikes on benches to prevent people sleeping on them, or uncomfortable seating in bus stops or airports, pink lighting in public spaces to prevent young people from congregating. Spikes in alcoves outside buildings to stop homeless people and so on.

One of the most famous is the Camden bench that apparently tackles 29 anti-social behaviours that can be done on a bench. Wow, I never imagined a bench to be such a hotbed of bad behaviour.

Selena Savic, speaking on the podcast gave an interesting insight, she says that if a policeman comes along and you are sleeping on a bench, there can be a negotiation, and it is this ongoing negotiation process that keeps ongoing change in society. However, spikes on a bench are immutable and change can’t happen until they rust away or are removed.

This is exactly what has happened to the world, the establishment, the industrialised elite, that we all live under, has increasingly replaced the human negotiation process with immutable processes.

Where we could have had a discussion, there is now a black or white rule or system, where there are only ‘rigid spikes’ or ‘concrete barriers’.

We need to stand up to the ‘spikes’ that have removed negotiation and remain human.