No one says ‘we’re shit’ in their marketing.

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We never write in our brochure, or on our social media feed, or our web copy, that ‘we suck’ or ‘we’re really shit’ or ‘our service is average at best’.

We all put that ‘we are the greatest’, so people receiving your marketing message discount all the glowing stuff you write about yourself, they heard it all before.

The best marketing ever, is what your customers say about you, not in some doctored testimonial, but that experiences they share about your business to the outside world via social media, reviews and word of mouth. Word of mouth is now one to many not one to one. So it is even more powerful than ever.

So the focus must be on creating an exceptional experience that others want to share, sure marketing must be good, but creating something truly worth sharing is the way to succeed and that takes thought, creativity and time.

Connecting

Copass/DNX/BetaHaus Lemnos Camp 2016 by Eric Van Den Broek
Copass/DNX/BetaHaus Lemnos Camp 2016 by Eric Van Den Broek

Connection doesn’t come from accepting friend requests, adding someone on LinkedIn, or following on Twitter. Not from email, texts, likes, shares, RTs.

It is not about being part of an online conversation or exchange.

Social media is a great tool to keep a connection going or to be a catalyst for new ones, we can reach out to people on the other side of the world.

Real and true connection comes from interacting with other humans in real life, where you share a thought, an idea, a story, a conversation, an exchange of something that means something to the other person. A connection is made and it is often hard to explain it in words, but there is a chemistry, something that is meaningful, there is a spark, a thing that is human.

It needs us to see the other person, speak with them, feel the other person’s body language, witness their expressions and emotions. To be deep rather that superficial.

It is not made by an exchange of data via the ether.