Don’t care

When we care about the outcome we are not authentic, we try too hard, we focus on engineering the result.

Outcomes are nearly always uncertain, however, we are taught to expect or want certainty. They are out of our control.

Forget about the outcome, just don’t care.

Care about doing something you love, about being genuine, about crafting your very best work.

Once you say to yourself ‘I don’t care’, magically the pressure is lifted on the outcome, you relax and are then more likely to do your best.

Letting go of things is a truly powerful thing.

Resistance is a negative drain.

Care free is hugely uplifting.

I’m crap at business

This is not a Gerald Ratner style admission, for those not old enough to remember or not from the UK, well worth a read – Gerald Ratner’s quote.

Business is typically seen as this ‘make as much money as you can’ type of thing and sometimes at whatever human cost. In fact, the whole principle of capitalism is to always be increasing profit and once you have taken all the quality and cost out of your product or service, all that is left to do is squeeze the most costly asset, us, the humans.

So more money made = better at business.

I prefer to do something that I enjoy with people who I love as customers and as great people to collaborate and share my day with. Sure, I could make more money, but then that would be at the cost of relationships and things that matter to me.

What if we decided to abandon the pursuit of money and instead embraced the pursuit of humanity and relationships? What impact could that have on our lives? Would we have a more meaningful and caring society? Would we simply enjoy life more?

Once money is brought into any equation it often corrupts and poisons our thoughts and behaviour. We modify, we compromise, we change. We have all had that thought, ‘what would I do if money didn’t matter?’. Well, we can all chose not to allow money to matter.

So as most see business, I’m crap at it, thankfully.