You and them

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It is all a question of you or them.

You can blame them.

The politicians, the unions, the large corporates, the neighbours, the boss, the weather or any other ‘them’.

Or you can choose to say it’s me, I make all the choices here.

I can do something rather than wait for them.

It’s only them if you want a get out clause, otherwise, enjoy it being you.

You can only have the life that matters and will make a difference if you accept it is you.

Moulded by our mistakes

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When we are open to learning and applying it, then we are more moulded from our mistakes than from our successes.

They shape us more, they teach us more, they help us to achieve better outcomes. They can push us more.

Why then do we fear to start uncertain things that might turn out to be a mistake or fail?

Uncertainty is where we could choose to head for a better future outcome.