The things we love in others

What if we choose to focus only on the things that we love in others?

What if we only looked at their good points?

What if we choose to accept, that like ourselves, they have imperfections and are different?

We all need people who really matter in life, not many, but once you’ve found them and there will only be a handful in a lifetime, then love them, accept their differences and cherish them.

Love the imperfections and always look for the good.

True love and decisions

True love is unconditional.

When we come to making decisions, if we choose to look down a lens that is based on love, then we are very unlikely to go too far wrong.

Sure there is a time to make decisions based on rational logic, but those aren’t the important decisions in life.

Making decisions out of love is based on relationships with the people and if we focus on what makes them special to us, then it is easy to be unconditional.

Then it is easier to make a decision about our interactions and reactions.

It’s a challenge as we are conditioned very differently, we are taught to judge, to criticise, to look for fault, for blame.

Let’s choose to look for love.