I don’t know how to

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Often when faced with a change or a new task, especially one that is likely to take us out of our comfort zone, we use the reason for not starting as ‘I don’t know how to do….’.

So we become stuck and then we search around for other reasons too not to do.

Yet we live in a time where the clever people at Google have indexed almost all the world’s knowledge, courses, coaches, advisors etc into a very simple and easy to use search engine. We can simply type ‘how to…..’ and up will come enough results to keep us occupied for a very long time.

In addition, the kind people at Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and many other networks have made it as easy as typing these words to connect with almost anyone who could help us anywhere in the world.

So we can easily access people to help us, we can access billions and billions of websites, articles, pieces of information and so on. We can even ask real people around us to help.

Yet we still say ‘I don’t know how to do…..’.

Perhaps there is something else holding us back? Perhaps we are frightened to learn as that might mean doing something and becoming successful.

‘I don’t know how to…’ is just an excuse.

Leaving a legacy

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Olympic games have to build in legacy.

Like so many corporate strategies, it’s hollow and manipulative.

Even the dictionary definition immediately jumps to define it as ‘an amount of money or property left to someone in a will’.

Legacy is what we leave behind with people other than the shallow shit of money and property.

It is the activities, kindness, love, companionship, empathy, support, and help. It is the time we have given to do these things with others.

This is then left as memories etched in people’s minds forever.

Leaving a legacy is not about achievement, money or stuff, it’s about the simple human stuff that makes us and others happy.

It’s often the small things that make a huge difference.

Don’t ponder for a lifetime how you will leave your legacy, it is simple, start now. Be kind, love, help and empathise with yourself and others.

This is what you leave after you have gone, this is what the people who matter will remember and cherish.