Messages

You can craft the perfect message all day long but if you haven’t defined who you message is for or the purpose of the message, then it simply won’t matter.

Definition is the starting point for anything so everyone is clear from the beginning what we are looking to achieve and what we are meaning.

It is important in our own minds to be super clear what our objective is too.

A great deal of miscommunication and failed objectives come because we weren’t clear in our message and we weren’t clear who the message was for.

Simple and defined messages enable others to understand our purpose.

Definition

I often talk of my amazement that mainstream education does not provide any communication lessons, or listening lessons, yet these skills are unquantifiably more important than say maths, physics, geography for the preparation for life.

Most of us leave education ill-equipped to do the most important thing, to be able to listen and then effectively communicate with others.

Perhaps as part of the communication lessons that we so badly need to be implemented at school, we could include a lesson, or more, on why defining the meaning of words clearly before attempting to discuss them is so important.

Many words are discussed at work or in life, such as creativity, innovation, productivity, generosity, authenticity, kindness, tolerance and many more. Yet how often do we pause to come to an agreement on the definition? Or even know the definition or how the other person is defining it. 

Without definition, everything is a blur, with it we can understand.