Don’t confuse motivation with inspiration

Motivation and inspiration are they the same things?

Take motivational speakers, they have their place, especially if they are genuine, authentic and doing it for the right reasons.

However, getting a ‘shot’ in the arm is not enough. If you are looking to them to solve your challenges or get you going long-term (a bit like thinking you can read a book, or go to a seminar or whatever else, that is a one off instant fix) then you’ll soon realise that it is not enough. I am not saying don’t go and listen to a speaker or read a book etc, but beware if you think that they are going to fix your life/business or both, then think again.

The only person who can fix your life is you and that is a simple fact of life. You have to start with yourself, take accountability and then look at your WHY. WHY do you do what you do?

It’s less about motivation and more about inspiration. Not just inspiring others only, but most importantly, you have to inspire yourself not motivate yourself.

Motivation – a reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a particular way.

Inspiration – fill (someone/you) with the urge or ability to do or feel something, especially to do something creative, innovative and fulfilling.

Motivation is a reason for doing something, where inspiration is deeper more soulful and creates a burning urge to fulfil something to create something.

True leaders inspire with their WHY, so they do not need to manipulate others, their WHY is the inspiration for others to follow. They know that motivation is a short-lived thing.

Great leaders or great businesses tell people their WHY and that inspires people to follow and give unlimited loyalty. They create people who follow and want to belong. Whereas motivation tends to be manipulative and sure that works short-term.

Motivation is a little bit like willpower, it fades without any inspiration and that is the difference between say a coach, who will work with you long term and will inspire you on an ongoing basis to reach your goals, to work out your own inspiration and your own WHY than say listening to a motivational speech or reading a book.

A motivational writer/speaker will just plug you into the national grid ‘blow’ your head off and give you an instant buzz. It’s a bit like a sugar rush, a quick fix, an instant gratification route, that will merely put a ‘plaster’ over the problem. Same as willpower, you can use it in the short-term to achieve almost anything, but it isn’t sustainable, so long term happiness and success will be unachievable.

Whereas a leader or a coach will inspire you to find your solution, which will take time to work and will require discipline and hard work from you to get to the results that you need.

Equally, you can find out your why and then inspire yourself. However, from life experience, it is always better to collaborate with others and get the most for sharing and working with other people.

So inspiration is like happiness – deep, meaningful and with commitment, it will lead to success. Motivation is like a slice of cake, good while you eat it but the buzz fades quickly.

Ruts

When we find ourself in a rut and we’re starting to find the day-to-day a challenge. No matter what any of us are doing, there is always a degree of repetition and that can lead to becoming stale and finding that the enthusiasm is lacking.

That’s when we need to stop and look at what we have and what we have created in life. Look at the journey we have had and remind ourselves that we have got to where we are through being an amazing human being.

All of us are capable of so much more than we often achieve because we allow ourselves to get into these ruts.

The ruts can be broken by simple chucking a bucket of water over our heads, by shaking things up, by making some changes to the daily routines.

Now we all know that the disciplines of daily routines, the little steps, done religiously day in day out, are part of the key to success. However, like all things, if you do not put some breaks, variety and introduce new stuff, then it starts to become a chore.

We all need to refresh the outlook, take on new challenges and have excitement in our life. The really successful people recognise that there is ‘shit’ to do each day and get it done. The also know that discipline is key to it. But the most successful will also take time to mix things up, to break the routines with things that are fun, challenging and exciting.

After all, we are all humans and not robots. So don’t get into ruts, be disciplined, be focused and make sure we allow in our schedule for new, exciting and challenging things to break up the monotony of life.