Ah but…

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Our default position is ‘ah but..’

We look by habit for what won’t work with a new idea. We say ‘yeah but, what if this happens…’ or ‘yeah, but I’ve tried that…’.

That does not mean we should not question things and look for challenges. But more often than not, until you try something you won’t know what the issues might be, other than the glaringly obvious things, which can easily be remedied before pressing the launch button.

The reason for this is our habit of building a cast iron defense for justifying our position of fear of starting or trying new things.

Best thing is to just go, try it. Then learn what doesn’t quite work, modify and carry on. Form new habits.

It is a mindset thing, change the default to that will work from what won’t work.

Give it a go

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It’s funny how we live one life in our heads often, and then a separate one outside, in the real world.

So we have lots of thoughts, and we almost live out a dual life in our heads. When it comes to actually doing that thing out loud in the real world, we hesitate, and often just carry on with that thought in our heads.

Sometimes that’s ok, as we all at times have thoughts, that on reflection weren’t the right ones, and it is good that we do not share every single thing with the world.

But conversely, some of our very best stuff just remains in our heads, never giving a public airing. That is a shame, but it is how a good deal of life goes, for a good many people.

Imagine how many people went to their graves, perhaps with some of the greatest things that human kind could have created, and they never happened.

What a different world it could have been.

What if Sir Tim Berners-Lee, who came up with the internet, hadn’t bothered, what if Ernest Rutherford, who split the atom, hadn’t split it? What if…the list could be endless, and you are potentially the next ‘what if’ person. None of us realise what we are truly capable of and we only find out by doing it, by giving it a go and that is it.

Giving it a go, otherwise all that unused potential in all of us will go to the grave and rest there for all eternity.

Go out and try something new, something different.