Peace – who wants that?

Peace, who wants that?

There are many people all over world who campaign for peace.

What does peace mean? Does it mean a world without physical conflict, does it mean a world without anger, without hate, a world that is harmonious, where we all just get along?

I’m not sure what the answer is to be honest, as it will mean different things to different people and life has taught me there isn’t a right or wrong for most things.

Since the dawn of time there has been terrible conflict and there has been horrific events, where humans have done the most destructive and often evil things to each other.

So today’s world is no different to any other point in history, we have conflicts where people are killing each other for some cause or another. Where people hide under a banner, an agenda, often an excuse to attack one another.

Although, in the perspective of the last 100 years, the world is relatively ‘peaceful’, as just a 100 years ago one of the most futile conflicts took place in Europe, where millions were slaughtered in a pointless war. Then just 21 years after that had ended, yet another war started, that bought slaughter and misery across much of the planet.

However, if you are in Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan or any other conflict, the fact that it isn’t one the scale of Stalingrad or Hiroshima, is not really of any comfort to you. It’s real and it’s you and your families that are under threat and are affected.

So surely by now, you would have thought the human being would have worked out that these conflicts are nearly always completely futile and in fact they could all be avoided.

So why hasn’t the penny dropped? Why hasn’t the millions that were slaughtered in two world wars in the last century not stopped us still killing each other?

Well for me, there are three very clear reasons why the penny hasn’t dropped.

Firstly, the people that often create, start and even engineer the wars, actually want to have them. Often these people are immune from the unpleasant side effects, such as dying. They are not taking up arms directly in the front line, where the bullets fly and where the bombs blow up them and their families.

They sit in the seats of power and play the war games with other peoples lives.

The governments in the West, in some developing countries too, need the distraction that war often brings. No surprise that the 2nd World War followed the great depression.

War is also very profitable for large companies and for the general economies of countries that manufacture weapons. These large companies will no doubt make contributions to political campaigns, so guess what? politicians need to keep having wars.

The second reason that wars still continue is, that we all have two ‘brains’ inside our heads that are running the world. We all have a limbic (chimp) brain, which is where all inputs go first and this chimp brain is not a logical, peace loving brain and is 5x stronger that our human one. It is our animal brain, that runs on emotion and doesn’t have any conscience, after all lions on the plains of Africa don’t look at the baby gazelle and say ‘ahhh poor thing, may be will eat tomorrow’. No they just eat it to survive.

The chimp inside us is very dominant and we all know how chimps act towards other chimps in the wild – it’s very aggressively, territorially and is brutal.

You don’t need to visit the cinema to experience Planet of the Apes, as we live in it on a day-to-day basis. Most of are allowing our chimp brains to dominate, instead of allowing the compassionate, logical and compromise seeking human (frontal) brain decide. Animals don’t have this human/frontal brain.

The chimp brain is all about win at all costs, to look strong in front of the troop, so wars are an inevitability.

Lastly, the ones who campaign for peace, often do so in the wrong way. Their message is often shrouded in mystic and rituals, things that the everyday person, who’s working hard to pay the bills and feed his family, does not relate to.

In fact in true chimp mode, they will ridicule a lot of it and poke fun, as they can’t relate to the message that the peace campaigners are putting out.

So what is the solution? As essentially I believe that most of the 7 billion souls on this planet want peace.

It’s two straight-forward things to be honest.

Firstly, change the way we educate the current and future generations. Start to teach people about how their brains work, how they can change and manage their chimp brain. Teach people about their values and how important they are and how we shouldn’t compromise them. Teach them the importance of collaboration, people, communities and helping others.

Secondly, the message from the peace campaigners needs to be delivered in terms of what is important to the masses, the message needs to be delivered with passion and put in simple, plain terms, that people can easily relate to and a message that they can see will benefit them.

This for me is the only way to reach peace and with technology that connects all 7 billion of us (well not if you live in N Korea) such as social media, the message can be spread easily if done in the right way.

Educate and make the message understandable and mainstream.

(If you want to read more about the chimp brain then check out The Chimp Paradox by Prof Steve Peters.)

750words.com

OK, so here we go – I’m joined up to 750words.com

I need to get my writing into shape and I was recommended this site by my mate Bernie Mitchell, who is always into cool shit before anyone else. Maybe some of the cool stuff he’s into, no one ever gets into!! But I think it’s super cool and that’s what counts.

Is writing 750 words a day really that hard? Well I am up to over 60 and I’m starting to think yes, ha that’s used up another 15 words.

So I want to be a writer, what does that involve? Well pretty damn obvious really. It involves WRITING.

It’s been a while since I have written regularly and like everything in life, it’s all about habit and discipline. Just do a little everyday and do something that doesn’t feel to much like hard work and slowly but surely, if you stick at it for long enough, it becomes a habit.

That’s 165 words now, only another 530 to go.

Why would someone use this site? You could just type on Google docs and count the words. Well having just started on this now today, I get it. As I type every word the word count goes up on the bottom of the screen, it’s so addictive already, 219, 220, 221……… (.’s don’t count, nor do spaces).

It’s also the fact that there is a box to write in everyday, so there’s a plan in place already. Also, I have sense of purpose and a feeling of freedom that I can just type anything, as it’s my space, my words, my writing.

Will I share these ramblings with anyone or will I just keep it all stored here for my own amusement? (if you are reading this, you’ll know I have shared it, that’s another 10+ words used up).

The ping & buzzes of social media are calling me on my phone and I am trying now not to be distracted. These messages will be so urgently important that I must break off now and read them. Well actually they can wait.

Nearly half way.

So this for me is another one of my steps towards change, I am removing slowly but surely, one by one all my gremlins.

I have just finished reading ‘The Chimp Paradox’ by Prof Steve Peters, I don’t often read books by ‘Profs’, in fact I don’t think I have read any books by a ‘Prof’ since leaving school.

This book, among a short list of others I have read in the last 2 years, is a life changer. In fact I would be bold enough to say, that life will never by the same after reading this. It’s almost like discovering the meaning of life and like anything so dramatic, not likely to ever be forgotten.

474 words now by the way, are you still finding it interesting? Well I am and in about 258 words I’ll shut up until tomorrow.

Anyway, back to ‘The Chimp Paradox’, part of this book teaches you that you need to remove all the negative gremlins, that we fill our ‘computer’ section of our brains with and replace them with positive auto-pilots.

I have had a habit, like most of us I would guess, of telling myself I am not good at something or can’t do something. This has to stop and this kind of negative thoughts have to be removed.

Like all habits good or bad, you can change them. However, as in all things in life you have to work at it, be disciplined and do it every day.

One of the things I have been tackling, among others, is that I have always told myself I am no good at running, ‘it’s my build’ etc etc fill-in the excuses. So I have started running, just very short distances to start and then I have slowly been building it up. I now believe I can run and this has shown me I can now tackle other gremlins.

Shit only 75 words to go, so few left and now I’m in the flow I want more words.

750words.com is going to help me tackle my writing gremlin, I am going to stop using that old chestnut of an excuse that I don’t have enough time.

What happens when I reach 750 words I wonder? Will it be like a tweet, I won’t be able to add anymore? I am going to find out in about 1 word……..