Keep the momentum going

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Once you have overcome that initial inertia, the fear of starting something, the key thing is to keep going.

Most of the effort is at the front end, getting the thing ‘off the ground’. The keeping it up there is just a question of discipline and commitment.

Wow, that was easy to type, if only it was that easy, but remind yourself on the days that you feel the lull, feel like arghhh!!! today I just can’t do it, that you have built all that momentum, you have taken all those steps closer to your goal. Giving up would lead to the brakes going on and the need to start again.

Just look at the journey up to today, all those small steps you have done and repeated day after day, think about where you have come from when you started.

Anybody who has faced starting anything worthwhile, something that will lead to making a difference, knows the monumental effort required to overpower our inner ‘chimps’, the limbic brain that says ‘nah do that latter, have another coffee, you’ve done enough today, tomorrow, tomorrow…’.

Think about the fears we’ve overcome, think about the hard work we put in at the beginning, the tweaking, the testing of ideas until we started to make some breakthroughs.

That doesn’t mean working when you’re just not in the right mood, sure take a break, go for a walk, watch some Netflix or whatever, but keep the faith in your work, keep the momentum going and do the work needed to keep going.

If you set yourself daily small manageable steps, this is so much easier to do. After all success is a series of small steps done well on a daily basis.

Just keep going.

Sorry, I’m being me, before I explode

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Life can make us feel like we want to explode.

We are pressured to fit in to other people’s agendas or views, we feel we need to not ‘rock the boat’ or to say ‘yes’, when actually we know instinctively that something is not for us.

However, there is this pressure to not let others down, or to do something as it is ‘the right thing to do’.

When we get pressured to follow other people’s agendas, it never ends up well for either party.

We end up doing stuff reluctantly and then feel the need to be apologising when we deliver what we know to be sub-standard or below the par set by others.

We end up apologising all the time, we say sorry to others, sorry for not being ourselves!!

We need to learn to say ‘no’ and we need to learn to do what is right for us. Then we will be happy and better able to serve the people in our lives that matter. The people who will not judge us by their way of doing things, and will accept a ‘no’, knowing that you are being genuine.

Those who cannot accept you, are not the people we are looking for in life.

It is hard to learn, but once you master it, you will get more done for you. After all it is your life.