Pain is a guide

Emotional pain and suffering can be a guide, if you choose to use it, to lead us to our purpose.

What we suffered in the past can be used now to ensure the pattern or circumstances that lead to our suffering is not repeated in our lives going forward and we can help others to avoid it too.

Having a purpose is the most important thing in life, without it we remain unfulfilled. Finding our purpose is a challenge, many never find it. Often, we have been conditioned to seek it in what we love to do, however, in more powerful ways it lies in what we have suffered.

Taking the past and rewriting it in our own minds with a positive purpose for now, and shaping our future, allows us to let go, move on and achieve something that we can be fulfilled with.

Waiting on others

We can wait for others to care.

We can wait for others to call.

We can wait for others to message.

We can wait for others to do it for us.

We can wait for others to bring us joy.

We can wait for others to fix it.

We can wait for permission.

We can wait for others to notice us.

Waiting is painful for us and the others that we have chosen to become dependent on.

Or we can get on and do things that others will want to care about, will notice, and the same time build our own happiness, joy, fulfilment and give ourselves permission to live a care and guilt-free life that is focused on our own joy, happiness and dreams.

It’s easier short-term to wait and be dependent, but the longer you wait the greater the pain.