It’s up to us

Once we realise that our happiness and joy in life is our responsibility and no one else’s, then we take out the burden on others and disappointment for ourselves.

All relationships are better without the expectations of others to fulfil our life for us and its resulting suffering and burden.

Make our own happiness and free ourselves and others.

Joy

When we do something to gain attention from others, we take away the joy of doing and we place a burden on others. We are full of expectation, which, of course, leads to disappointment.

If we do simply for the joy of doing something there is no expectation, no disappointment and no burden.

Joy is pure and simple and we can all experience it now and whenever we choose.