Danger

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The problem with the obsession with eliminating danger from the world is that reward comes from risky.

When I say reward, I am not referring to financial reward that the old school capitalist world has sold us. That reward has only created the mass money making machines of the industrialised world, where precision like productivity churns out bland, homogenised stuff and trinkets for the masses.

I am talking about a more spiritual, meaningful and fulfilling reward of happiness from taking a risk and succeeding.

The woes of modern life for many in the developed world is caused by the sanitised life we lead, marching like zombies to the ‘factory’ to produce mainly unnecessary stuff for the masses to consume.

Even in the glitzy, buzzing world of ‘start-ups’ and entrepreneurs, many are in fact poorly paid lackeys of angel investors and VC funds, many have sold their soul to be ‘investor ready’ and the risk is lessened.

Now the weird and artisanal are rising up to live dangerously and create something risky and different. They are serving ever-increasing niche markets of the connected world. The reward they get is doing something they love and the sense of fulfilment is huge.

The more different, the riskier it is, and the personal reward is bigger. It’s the rush of excitement that is missing for many.

Danger is exciting, safe is dull. We are not here on this planet to be safe. As the human race, we didn’t migrate from the plains of East Africa 70,000 years ago to reach 2016 by playing it safe, by not relishing some danger.

Live a dangerous life – it’s fun.

Life happens at the edge

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If you always stay in the middle of the circle, in the middle of your comfort zone with the crowd, sure it is safe and cosy. It is what we are encouraged to do, right from the beginning of our lives, be safe. But rebel, do not accept cosy.

The things that you will remember at the end of your life’s journey happen at the edges of the circle, where there is the most risk. That does not have to be recklessness and foolishly endangering your life, there is a lot for all of us in between dangerous and safe.

The closeness to the edges and the circles we choose are all subjective and should be what is right for us. But the further you go from the centre, the more risk increases and the more the opportunity for feeling alive does too.

It takes a habit forming routine of overcoming the fear of being vulnerable, mostly mentally and sometimes physically. It takes a willingness to overcome our inner self, the biggest hurdle to letting go.

If we never push ourselves out to the edges of our circle, then we miss bumping into other circles, we miss the chance to move to another zone, we miss seeing what is at the very edge of our zone.

Life is about experiences, not possessions. Personalise it to what you want, but don’t stay in the middle.