Definition

I often talk of my amazement that mainstream education does not provide any communication lessons, or listening lessons, yet these skills are unquantifiably more important than say maths, physics, geography for the preparation for life.

Most of us leave education ill-equipped to do the most important thing, to be able to listen and then effectively communicate with others.

Perhaps as part of the communication lessons that we so badly need to be implemented at school, we could include a lesson, or more, on why defining the meaning of words clearly before attempting to discuss them is so important.

Many words are discussed at work or in life, such as creativity, innovation, productivity, generosity, authenticity, kindness, tolerance and many more. Yet how often do we pause to come to an agreement on the definition? Or even know the definition or how the other person is defining it. 

Without definition, everything is a blur, with it we can understand. 

Say it more than once


If we have something to say, then say it more than once.

Repetition of our message has value.

Not the exact same words every time. Parrots are monotonous.

The people who like what you have to say, want to hear more. Those who have not heard you, deserve to hear what you have to say.

The important thing is, if you’ve got something to say of value, keep sharing it.

Finally make your message easy for others to understand and share. 

It can take a while for people to hear you.