Grow up

grow up

No thanks.

We are told from a very early age by teachers, parents, society that we need to ‘grow up’.

What does that really mean?

What like grow up like ‘adults’?

I am not really sure what ‘grown up’ means, it is perhaps defined by the system to be the desired outcome of becoming an adult.

So grown up means, working, paying taxes, getting married, having kids, being serious, being good boys and girls, and doing as we are told.

Getting old is mandatory, we will all age, but deciding to be ‘grown up’ is a choice, not something you have to do because you are say 25 or 50 or 70.

At what age is it unacceptable to not be grown up?

I will be 50 this year, the most miserable part of my life was when I became grown up and serious, I am now back to being free and rebellious again, and happy.

So don’t give up your freedom of enjoying life, having fun, being silly, messing about and being disobedient. Don’t opt to die at 20 then buried at 75.

Never grow up, stay young, free, childish and happy whatever your age.

The missing piece of the jigsaw

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Today I have been doing a 1000 piece jigsaw with family, something we haven’t done with the kids since they were little, and those jigsaws were of Engie Benjy, Jollop and Dan (and more like 10 pieces).

So the thing that struck me from this is, firstly a 1,000 piece jigsaw is extremely hard, but the missing bit of the jigsaw in life is just do the simple, fun things, with the people who matter.

Do not stress about all the other shit, that we more often than not, can not control.

This Sunday, I’ve been for a walk in the snow with the dog, visited my Mum for a cup of tea, started building a massive jigsaw with the family and as I am writing this I’m making a roast dinner for all of us.

Life is great, happiness is simple, enjoy each day.

Find all the pieces to your jigsaw before it is too late.