Snappy

Sometimes we have to rumble with things and mull them over before making a decision.

There is a pressure often to make snappy decisions and not over-think and that is true, but paradoxically, there are times when contemplation and a real deep think have value.

Impulse is good, but not everything in life can be fast and when it is decisions that really matter, there is no harm in going for a walk and thinking, or sleeping on it before reacting.

Most things in life are a blend yet often we want it to be a quick fix instant answer for everything.

Take time when it’s needed, after all, it’s our life and our choices.

You’re the one putting your hand in the fire

Stick to your guns.

Don’t be swayed by others.

It’s what you feel that matters.

After all, others may well advise on a course of action, but they haven’t got to do it.

If it feels wrong, if there’s a nagging doubt, if something comprises your values, it won’t go well

Step away and trust your own judgement.

It seems easier to fit in and do what’s expected or popular but longer term it’s always better to do what deep down you know to be right for you.

After all who’s hands going in the fire? Not their’s.