Stick to your guns.
Don’t be swayed by others.
It’s what you feel that matters.
After all, others may well advise on a course of action, but they haven’t got to do it.
If it feels wrong, if there’s a nagging doubt, if something comprises your values, it won’t go well
Step away and trust your own judgement.
It seems easier to fit in and do what’s expected or popular but longer term it’s always better to do what deep down you know to be right for you.
After all who’s hands going in the fire? Not their’s.