Write your own rules

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All too often in life, we say things like ‘I’m vegetarian and so I can’t eat fish’ or ‘I’m doing ‘xyz’ course/plan/program/diet (fill with whatever) so I must do ‘abc”. Who says so? The rule makers do.

Well who is to say the rule makers are right?

Sure rules have their place, after all, it would be difficult to play say football if you could just make it up as the teams played.

However, we can either live our lives by the rules of others or we can choose to write our own and modify them to suit. After all, we know ourselves better than anyone and we need to live according to what is good for us.

The best rule is not to have too many of them.

Why restrict ourselves for the sake of fitting in?

The paths of life

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There are many paths in life to choose from all of which we decide.

Once we go down a particular path there is always a thought that the other path might have been better.

Who knows? It might also have been worse, something we rarely consider.

Whatever path we choose, we decide where it goes and what it leads to.

Often though we expect the path to tell us, it won’t, it is us that decides our destination.

The problem is we tangle the path with ‘weeds’ of fear, over-thinking and complication. Blaming the path we choose not taking responsibility ourselves.

Clear your path, it’s your choice.

Go to whatever destination you want as there is a path to everywhere you just have to make the path clear.