The vibes we send out is what we will attract.
Anger attracts other angry people. Hate attracts hate and so on.
Likewise, calmness and peacefulness will attract that.
The signals we transmit are what is happening inside us.
The more we stay away from our minds and egos, the more authentic we are. Our reactions are sensed by others. When we accept what is and remain calm and at peace, our reactions will be calm.
Our light shines when we are calm.