Force yourself to keep being adaptable

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The human species is a master at being adaptable to a changing
environment very rapidly.

When you go away on holiday, your new Air BnB or surfers house or 5
star hotel room immediately becomes ‘home’.

We soon settle in to any environment, even if initially it takes us
out of our comfort zone. Interestingly when faced with no choice but
to adapt, we adapt immediately and accept it, finding out that it was
10 x easier than expected or feared.

That’s how we essentially start, try and do something new.
Yet with our business, job and day to day life, this settling in slows
down as we get comfortable where we are. It becomes pure and simply
repetitive behaviour and we become unwilling to challenge ourselves to
adapt to something new.

While some repetition, especially of successful habits, is essential,
however too much, then leads to inertia. It leads to acceptance and
compliance. We become sterile and our lives become a chore. We become
comfortable.

The solution is to keep challenging ourselves to do more, to create
more, to share our very best and then we keep adapting, we stave off
boredom, compliance and keep life as it was intended to be – fun and
meaningful.

Be brave enough to simply do and then you have no choice but to adapt
to the new environment. Start something and force yourself to adapt –
don’t allow any choice.

Keep moving from one comfort zone to the next and hop your way to a
better, more rewarding and happy life.

After all, we all have an eternity to rest and not adapt.

When is the ideal time?

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We often sit and contemplate ‘when will be the best time to do ‘x’?’

Then by default, we are programmed to risk assess the situation and the possible ‘dangerous’ outcomes of doing something. This comes from 100,000’s of years of evolution. We now know that there are no real physical dangers posed by doing most things, apart maybe from signing up to train to become a lion tamer.

Then there are the emotional dangers, the fear of being made to look foolish, the things that stop us doing many things.

The longer we sit and think, the longer we have to compile the list of excuses, and we’re super good at this, left long enough, we’ll come up with a gem of an iron proof get out.

The only ideal time to do something is as soon as possible, and if it is important, as in going to make a difference to your life and of others, then now is the ideal time.

This is because, if we think too much about anything, which always happens with the more important things, we’ll excuse ourselves from showing up.