When or if this happens

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When or if this happens, then I will do this.

When or if I have more time, I will start that new project.

When or if we have more money, we will start a family.

When or if that person leaves, I will be next for promotion.

When or if I lose weight, I will start to going running again.

When or if that person changes, then I will change too.

When or if rarely happens.

There will be always something to find as a reason to procrastinate. A replacement ‘when this happens’.

Start the next part of your journey now and if you are scared to start, that means you’re onto doing something that matters.

If it doesn’t work, try something else. We all recover from almost any outcome if it doesn’t go to plan.

The secret life in our heads

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We all have this secret life in our heads.

Uh oh, maybe it’s just me.

It is where we often imagine how we might like to be and pretend that is how we are inside our heads.

It’s a fantasy life.

Living a real one takes practice and that is all we need to do, one step at a time, practice building our real life based on the one that we live out in our head.

It is just learning the habit of taking one almost unnoticeable step, after another, in the direction of our dream life day-by-day.

What will hold us back is making the steps too big and too complicated.