If everything we imagined had happened, life would have been unbearable, as we always imagine the worst.
The thing is, it didn’t all happen, maybe over a lifetime one or two really bad shit occurred. maybe 5 at worst.
Did we deal with those things? Yes, or we accepted them.
Are we still here? Yes, as you’re reading this.
Did we learn something valuable from that? Yes.
Perhaps, if we need to imagine the future, we could imagine the best.