Love.
We can choose to make all our choices in life based on love.
This is easier said and harder to achieve due to how we are conditioned to think.
But try it, just for a few days, I’m up for it, nothing to lose in trying something different.
We could be amazed by what happens.
Philip Dodson 
Love usually doesnt listen to d voice of reason. We could be making unrealistic decisions based on just that.