There is a default position whereby we feel like that only bad things happen to us and life isn’t fair.
That our life sucks and we don’t have what others have.
Comparisons with others only seem to go one way, why do we only seem to look for people ‘better off’ in our minds?
Surely, a sense of perspective would show us that there are people ‘better off’ and there are people who are suffering and a lot ‘worse off’ than us.
Better perhaps to stop comparing with other people at all.
Life teaches us that better or worse off are very subjective and in reality with the right perspective we can all have amazing lives, it’s just a question of your perspective and how you choose to see things.