We currently hold the hand we were dealt.
Well strictly speaking that is only true at the beginning, when we are born.
After that, less so as children, but as adults, we get to choose it all.
We can either pick up the next card from the deck in exchange for one in our hand, we could swap with another player, we could fold and start again.
The rules are the ones we make and the limits are only the ones we impose or we allow others to impose.
The cards are the ones we choose to hold, always.
If you don’t like the hand, change it, otherwise stop complaining and play with the one you have.