Things don’t fail
The outcome might not be as we anticipated from the outset. Things rarely are.
We have created a myth, similar to the black and white ‘good vs evil’ story, of only two outcomes, win or lose, success or failure.
That is because it is easier to sell the myth, it is easier to always get us to come back for more and there is nothing more powerful than the myth that is a failure.
‘Failure’ needs to be redefined as learning. No need for any negatives, after all, who sets out to fuck things up?
Stop beating yourself up with their myths, create your own rules and simply carry on positively learning from the choices we make.
Better than fearing to do something because you might fail. If there is fear, then that is normally a sign you are onto something, it might not work, but that is how we learn.
Philip Dodson 